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Self Acceptance Script
I am a person with human dignity. What I do does not change me.
Sometimes I make mistakes and sometimes I do things very well but I'm the
same person no matter what I do.
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will continue to make some mistakes throughout my life because I'm not
perfect. I am a fallible human being. However, because I'm a person I also
have the ability to learn. I can work on mistakes and learn to do what is
necessary to change them. I can strive to do better; I cannot be better. I
already am a human being.
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Past is in the past. I cannot change that. I regret some things I've done.
I don't like some things that have happened but I can't change the past by
staying upset and worried. I can't guarantee the future by being worried
either. I can change my feelings right now. I'm probably going to handle
situations better if I'm calmer and more clearheaded. I am remembering that
I am in control of my feelings. I control myself. I can't always control
the situation. Many times things happen that I don'' like. I will accept
this by remembering that I cannot control everything. If I don't like it, I
can do my best to do something about it, if I want to. If I don't want to,
I can calmly remember that I have a choice.
Other people control their decisions about their behavior. I am not
responsible for what other people think, feel or do. I want to do my best
to help others but their behavior is in their control. They decide what
they do.
I do what I do because I can only act in light of my own experience, my own
learning and my own attitudes. Sometimes I make mistakes; this doesn't mean
I'm bad or wrong. Mistakes mean I don't know everything. No one knows
everything. I am a human being who has the ability to learn from my
mistakes.
What people think or do cannot make me less of a person. I am me and no one
can change me. I will continue to do the things I do and make the mistakes
I make until I change. I want to begin to change right now. I am accepting
myself by remembering I am a fallible human being, just as good, just as
worthwhile as other people are.
Sometimes people do what I'm not expecting them to do. Sometimes it seems
as if they don't care. This is my interpretation of their behavior and I
could be mistaken. However, even if it were true that some people are
inconsiderate of me and don't really care about how I feel, I still do not
have to get so upset about it.
Other people have a right to do what they do and to think what they think.
They do not have to care about me in order for me to be calm or even happy.
Other people's thoughts do not control or define my feelings.
I am a person with human dignity no matter what other people think of me.
Even if they don't think of me the way I would like, I can stand it. I
don't need the approval or caring of others in order to feel good about
myself. I am the most important person in my life. I am acceptable to
myself.
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